A New Blog Home

December 3, 2009 at 5:07 pm | In Miscellaneous | Comments Off

Well, I did it. I moved my blog.

No more View From My Fishbowl for me!

I mean, not that I don’t still feel like I live in a fishbowl sometimes, especially when I put my life out there for the whole world to read, but still… I wasn’t feeling the fishbowl anymore. So now, go to…

———> www.racheletcetera.com <———

Yes, Rachel Et Cetera. It’s all about meeeee!!! LOL!

Not much there yet, but I want to move over at least the Botswana posts. The rest of it (all 3.5 years of blogging randomness) is safely saved away and I don’t think I’ll put it back online for now.

So, go already!

And please, change your feed readers and sidebar links, etc and etc.

It's Thanksgiving Day!!!

November 26, 2009 at 3:49 am | In Botswana, Family, Thanksgiving Blessings | 1 Comment

Ah yes…the obligatory Thanksgiving post. :) Sometimes I (sadly) think that Thanksgiving in the US is nothing more than a time for people to get together with people they may or may not like, stuff themselves, and watch (or play) football. Of course, it isn’t that way for *everyone* and I hope it isn’t that way for you!!!

We have so much to thank God for. It really should be a daily thing and not just a ‘once-a-year’ thing, but it is nice to have one day set aside every year to remind us to give thanks.

Even were this life filled with pain, suffering, and need, I would still have much to thank Him for – because He’s given me eternal life and peace! But on top of that, He has heaped blessing upon blessing on my head – meeting my needs, my family, my friends, opportunities for service, growing me through trials, and giving me multitudes of things I don’t even deserve.

I know there are a lot of more traditional Thanksgiving songs out there, but this one has been running through my head all morning…

I am so glad…I am so thankful…

Today, though traditionally Thanksgiving, will just be a regular day for us. Although, we are making chicken fajitas for supper, so I get to roll out approximately 30 tortillas or so…which will be a lot of fun! I made some pumpkin pies last night, but we haven’t decided if we are having them today or tomorrow.

Tomorrow my brother and his family are coming up from SA to spend the weekend with us. So really, tomorrow is our Thanksgiving. No turkey, though! Nope, it will be fried chicken, mashed potatoes, biscuits and gravy for us! (We only found one turkey…about the size of a cornish hen and approximately $30 US. They told us they will be getting bigger ones in before Christmas, so we’ll see what happens!)

Saturday is my dad’s birthday, but the schedule is already packed with a couple services in the village tentatively planned. Sunday is church, and then Monday is Lukey’s very first birthday! So somewhere in all of that, we have to make some chocolate pies (for Dad), some cupcakes (for Luke), and braai (cookout) several different kinds of meat that we bought this week. :) It’s going to be a good weekend with lots of celebrating and thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Our Daily Schedule

November 24, 2009 at 3:36 pm | In Botswana | Leave a Comment

I wrote this last week but never published… and already some things have changed!

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It all starts the evening before. Pulling out a tablet of paper, we go through each hour of the day and list who has studies planned with who and where they are to meet. In some sense, this is an act of deficiency because we know that half of the studies we list will never come about, and in their place there will be multiple divine appointments. But with so many of us here (10 for now) and only one vehicle, we have to keep some semblance of order. Once everything is laid out hour by hour, we can then plan vaguely who can ride with whom, who needs to take a taxi, what time meals should be planned for, etc.

In the morning, the guys start getting their showers pretty early. There are two group studies that are held each morning – one in the market, and another for a shop’s employees, so at least four of the guys are out the door by 7:30. The rest of us take our time getting ready, cleaning up breakfast dishes, and when everyone is back together at 9:00, we have morning group devotions.

After devotions, the guys have training time with my dad, while my mom and I do laundry, clean, and start making lunch. We usually make lunch our main meal of the day, and depending on when the first afternoon study starts, we usually eat between 11:30 and 12:00.

Then the afternoon busyness starts! Sometimes we all go into town together, packing into our car like sardines. Other times we go in stages – some by car, some by taxi – as we disperse ourselves around town to our respective appointments. As I mentioned before, only half of our appointments will likely show up, so we go armed with tracts to hand out, or another nearby contact we can drop in on to do an impromptu study. Most days we plan around 25 studies, many of them group studies. Some of them are salvation studies, and some are discipleship of those who have been saved.

We all trickle back home, whoever is riding in the car usually stopping at the grocery store. While feeding eight guys and having only a tiny fridge, we have to stock up nearly every day. Some of the guys end up staying in town until 5 o’clock or later, but eventually everyone is back home – tired and sweaty from another long day.

Supper around 6 o’clock consists of sandwiches and leftovers (when there are any) and we listen to a chapter of an audiobook every night while we eat. We usually make coffee and tea to have while we debrief, everyone getting a chance to share what happened in their studies. Then one of the guys gives a book report of a biography he is reading, we clean up the supper dishes, and then everyone goes off to write their reports.

Another thing about having so many people going so many directions is that it is easy to let people fall through the cracks. Since we are only here a short time and there will be others coming behind us to work with the same people, we are careful to keep records of the time we spend with each person, what studies we do, and what issues we discuss. Everyone types us a two or three paragraph report of their day to add to our trip journal, and then I break down the information into the big book of contacts. The correspondence studies are graded and new studies gotten ready to send out, tracts are stuffed to be handed out, booklets are assembled and papers are copied so that everyone is ready to face the next day, equipped with the information that they need.

Then comes free time! LOL – I say that facetiously because some days (depending on how much paperwork needs to be done or videos need to be edited and uploaded), my ‘free time’ doesn’t start until 11 pm! But we usually have a couple hours to just relax before bed.

It has been a lot of fun thus far, although quite draining and exhausting as well. Just being outside in the heat is enough to wear you out – then add on top of that a line of Bible studies with people ranging from no Bible knowledge to those steeped in false religion. It is definitely an experience of a lifetime. :)

Victoria Falls, Part 2

November 20, 2009 at 6:37 pm | In Africa | 3 Comments

So…some more pictures. :)

The drive from Francistown to Victoria Falls took us several hours. The first leg to Nata was relatively smooth with traffic gradually getting less and less the further north we got. The road from Nata to the border was a little more interesting. 170+ kilometers of pure potholes with the occasional passing truck and…

elephants… Lots and lots of elephants…

Once we reached the border, we had to the leave the rental car and pile into our little four-door van. 10 people, 10 overnight bags, 15 liters of water, a few hundred pieces of literature, and 70 km to go!

At the border, a couple of the guys jumped out to walk across. We picked them up on the other side, and less than 5 km later, ran across these little fellas.

It was a pride of 7 or 8 lions, crossing the road one or two at a time. We sat and watched them, right outside our windows, for probably 15 minutes or so until another car pulled up behind us and they all ran into the bushes.


After driving all day, we reached the Falls about 30 minutes after they closed. We found a place to stay for the night (the guys stayed in tents and we got a little cabin) and found something to eat. Next morning, we went to see the Falls. The first white man to see Victoria Falls was David Livingstone. Can you even imagine?

We were, of course, viewing from the Zimbabwe side, which is (from what I understand) the better side to see the Falls from. If you come from the Zambia side, you can go in the Devil’s Pool, which is a sectioned-off area at the top of the Falls that you can ’swim’ in. We saw some people walking around that area from where we were standing across the canyon.

Some places were dry and some places were very wet…as if it was raining!

Some of us got closer to the edge than others…

The whole group…

For a few more pictures and some video clips (albeit a bit pixelated and shaky), go here.

Victoria Falls

November 17, 2009 at 2:17 pm | In Africa | 6 Comments

Some of our team is leaving out this week, so we decided to do a quick trip to Zimbabwe. Everyone has been telling us this is the best time to go to Victoria Falls. Once rainy season starts, it is hard to see the falls because of the mist blocking the view…so rather than wait until December when we might fit more comfortably in a vehicle, we all squished in and off we went!

It. was. amazing. The force of the water…the spray…the noise. Absolutely breathtaking. This picture was taken at the beginning, before we walked around closer and got absolutely soaked.

Also, the drive to Zim included a lot of wildlife viewing…almost better than anything I’ve seen in Kruger Park. :) As we were driving along, a pride of 7 or 8 lions walked out in the road right in front of us. We pulled to a stop and watched them in the grass for a while. If we had pulled up the road a few more feet, I could have reached out my window and pet them. Not that I would of course… We also saw a pack of wild dogs and the obligatory impala, monkeys, warthogs, elephants, zebras, etc.

I hope to have a few more pics to show you, but being without my own camera for the week, I will have to get them from my brother. Unless he wants to post them on his blog, in which case I’ll just point you there. :)

Laundry Fun

November 13, 2009 at 1:26 pm | In Botswana | 6 Comments

This is our washing machine.

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It’s a pink bathtub, located at a most inconvenient level to make your back ache and your knees sore. The alternative is using the kitchen sink, which can fit approximately two dish towels, a pair of socks, and a shirt at one time.

Here’s how we do laundry: Fill the tub halfway with hot water, sprinkling in a bit of handwashing detergent. The package says 3/4 a cup…but I never put in even half of that. As you can see, there are still lots of bubbles and lots of soap. Put your clothes in…first the lights, saving the reds and darks for later. Once the clothes have been submerged and swirled around, I usually walk away and do something else, letting them soak in the warm, soapy water for a while. Then take each item, swirl around in the water, use your knuckles to work on areas of stain, then wring out as much water as you can. Pile up little wads of soapy clothes all around the bathtub while you systematically empty the tub of the clothes. Next, using the same soapy water, do the same with the reds and darks.

Now, let all the water drain, rinse the tub, then fill with cold, clean water. Again, submerge the lights, swishing around and around to be sure all the soapy water is rinsed out. Again, wring out as much water as possible, then deposit little wads of clean, wet clothing into our single laundry hamper. Set towels and washrags to one side, as they need to be rinsed a second time (if only rinsed once, the little bit of soap residue makes them dry hard). Then rinse the reds and the darks.

Again, drain the tub, fill (not quite so full this time) with cold, clean water, pouring in a couple tablespoons of laundry softener. Submerge the towels and washrags, swish around, and wring out. (Wonder to yourself why the hardest thing to wring out – the large bath towels – must be wrung out 3 times in one washing.) Drain the tub and sit back to catch your breath.

Yeah, you!!! Now it’s time to visit the dryer, which is of course, a series of lines strung around the yard. We have one carousel, two extra long lines between the trees, and approximately 100 clothespins. Clothes must be turned inside out before hanging, otherwise the beating sun will fade and bleach your clothes in only one afternoon. Clip away! (I might add, this is my favorite part. There is nothing so relaxing as hanging out clean laundry in the morning sun…of course, I’m usually sweating like a pig by the time I get done!)

Now stand back and admire your work. Try not to feel discouraged that spending the last 45 minutes on this activity only washed your clothes from the past 3 days and the towels and rags from yesterday.

It’s almost Thanksgiving, right? I am so thankful…

I am thankful that I have an abundance of clothes. I only brought one suitcase with me, yet I still have enough clothes to go more than a week without having to wash. I try not to let it build up and rather do a little every day, but still…I have the option of waiting if I want to. I don’t have only two outfits that I rotate to wash and wear – like a lot of people that I now know.

I am thankful that we have running water. So many don’t. As much work as it is to wash clothes by hand, I can’t even imagine having to carry my own water from the pump outside, or from the stream down the road (which, consequently, is dry this time of year). Then, water brought in by hand must be taken out by hand…

I am thankful that we have hot water. Boiling water on the stove to add to my laundry water would be quite a task indeed. Of course, if we lacked hot water, I probably wouldn’t bother boiling and would just wash in cold.

I am thankful we have electricity to make the hot water. The power has only gone out twice since we’ve been here – and neither time for very long.

I am thankful that the clothes dry quickly. With the hot sun and slight breeze, most clothes dry in a hour, towels in two, and sheets in 20 minutes. This means that you don’t have to be quite so careful to fully wring things out after the last rinse, when your arms already feel like jelly.

I am thankful for the exercise, and for the fact that I am physically able to wash my own clothes. I have two arms, two hands, two legs, and ten fingers. They are all used in doing laundry. It really is a great workout program. Already, I can tell that I am improving. I can do more laundry at one time, and it doesn’t wear me out as much as when we first got here.

I am thankful that I don’t have to wash everybody’s clothes. :) My mom and I do a couple loads each day, taking care of our clothes, my dad’s clothes, the towels, sheets, and rags…and that is enough to keep us busy. We have helped the guys out on occasion, but there is no way we could wash everybody’s clothes and still be able to do anything else. It would be a full-time job.

I am thankful that when I get home in January, I will be able to take all my clothes, dump them into the washing machine, press a button, and WALK AWAY.
:)

Our House, Pt 2

November 12, 2009 at 11:21 am | In Botswana | 3 Comments

In the back yard of the house, we have several varieties of fruit trees. :)

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There are sweet oranges and sour oranges…

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There are grapefruit-like oranges…

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Look who was hiding in the orange tree!

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We even have an avo tree…I hope it produces avos while we are here. :)

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There is a lemon tree…

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And this is what happens when the oranges fall on the ground. It’s a feast for millipedes!

On Being a Sister

November 10, 2009 at 2:52 pm | In Family | 5 Comments

I have 3 brothers – 2 older and 1 younger – so I have a bit of experience with this topic. Of course, family dynamics will change from house to house, so do keep that in mind. For instance, I know that some families don’t tease – nada, zip, nilch. We, however, tease a LOT. Probably a little too much. So that, of course, tempers my opinions and reactions.

Katina asked on this post, “So, I am wondering your perspective on brothers being that you had only brothers. How was/is that? We only had one boy in my family and now I have three sons. I am always on the lookout for more information on what I am (and Sophia) to expect as I have no idea. Do you get used to their teasing? Do you mind being surrounded by 7 guys in Botswana? Is that easy for you because you had brothers? What advantages/disadvantages do you think you have because of having only brothers. What is most important for Sophia to do to suceed with all her brothers!?”

As I started to answer Katina, I realized that my comment was turning rather wordy, so I summarized a quick idea and promised a later post. Here it is. :)

First of all, to answer the questions simply: Yes, you get used to teasing; I don’t mind being here with 7 guys, it is easy for me (probably easier than with 7 girls); there are lots of advantages to having only brothers (and a few disadvantages perhaps – but I have a hard time seeing them); and the best thing to succeed with brothers is as follows.

DO learn to deal with teasing.

Teasing is how brothers show affection. Brothers generally have a hard time coming right out and saying a compliment or a rebuke of any sort, so they tease. They tease to tell us we are doing a good job; they tease to politely ask us to change something.

If your family teases a lot, you will get used to the teasing. Don’t take things too seriously or personally. You learn to make your own comebacks and tease yourself. Of course, as boys are growing up they need to learn what is appropriate in teasing, and what is ‘too much’ and sisters can give them invaluable learning opportunities (as they run away in tears). I quickly learned that running away in tears only got more teasing for me, but my brothers soon learned when I was really upset by something they said.

So when boys tease, there are several responses. A sister can fight back, but the day will come (soon enough) when the brother will be stronger. A sister can lash back with her words, and it has been my experience that girls are much better in the verbal department and soon learn to cut down brothers to nothing but a tiny speck on the floor. This however, is certainly not the response that God would want us to have, and usually just makes a brother very mad. Light teasing back is good…a bit of verbal sparring as it were…but sisters soon find that they can never win that way and things can quickly get out of control to land in the first two categories. The third response is to just be silent.

DO learn to hold your tongue.

Silence….ah, that is the sister’s best tool. To pretend you don’t even hear the comment in the first place, or to simply smile and walk away…it lets all the air out of the remark, and brothers usually don’t know what to do next. :)

The Lord has had to teach me a lot about ’soft answers’ and ‘holding my peace.’ Boys (much like men) don’t want to be bested by a girl, and though a sister may find it necessary from time to time to use her literary gifts to put a brother (generally a younger brother who is teasing inappropriately) in his place, she is usually better off just holding her tongue and sweetly walking away.

When brothers are angry – hold your tongue. When brothers tease too much – hold your tongue. When brothers say stupid things – hold your tongue.

This brings us to the third thing I think all sisters should remember…

DO remember that you are training men.

Of course, the sister herself is not doing the training since that is the job of the parents, but there is much she can do to help, especially with younger brothers. It is easy as a younger sister to just defer to my older brothers – to trust their judgment, let them make decisions, to respect them as men. When it comes to younger brothers, however…that is where things get a little scary. For a big sister who is more mature and generally makes better decisions to trust a younger brother who has not yet proven his reliability…it can be a hard area to ‘let go’ of, especially if said older sister is used to being the second Mommy.

But one day these brothers will be leading their own families. There will come a day when they will have to be in charge and make decisions. As the big sister, I can know exactly what needs to be done and boss everyone else around, but that is only remedying the current situation and not building character. By deferring to my brother’s opinions and letting him make decisions, I am not only letting him get experience in leading, I’m also learning submission, even when the decisions wouldn’t be MY first choice.

DO be a girl.

Brothers don’t generally want a sister who is just like another brother. My parents never discouraged me from playing with my brothers, and we would run around with toy guns, build forts, dam up the creek, play with walkie-talkies, ride bikes. But my parents did encourage me in girly toys as well – most of my time playing ‘boy’ games were done with a baby doll strapped on my back, a bonnet on my head, or a basket on my arm with ‘gatherings’ for supper. I never really got into sports, and I think my brothers preferred it that way. Having two brothers older than me, there was never a time when I could wrestle them down, so we never really got into that. (I think my dad would have severely punished them should they have seriously tried to wrestle me anyway.) I was the girl, and my interests definitely ran a bit different than theirs did. We had lots of common interests and loved to spend time together, but there was definitely a difference in our pursuits.

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Latest picture I have of the 4 of us – 2006? It’s been a while…

In my opinion, a sister that loves her brothers and loves to spend time with them can use these four things to make their relationship sweet. As my brothers and I are all older now, we still have very close relationships, being able to talk to each other about almost anything, and loving nothing more than to spend time together. We still love to tease as much as we ever did, and I have no problems respecting them and their opinions.

Do any of you sisters have any more suggestions to add?

Just Call Me Milly

November 8, 2009 at 4:37 pm | In Miscellaneous | 6 Comments

I live in a house of 7 tormenting little brothers.

With the exception of one, I have grown up with all of these guys since they were barely walking (I actually remember ‘babysitting’ some of them!). Of those, with the exception of two, they are practically my little brothers, being in ministry together and our families spending much time together over the years. And of course, one of those really is my little brother, who urges them all on to bigger and better teasing. All of them, missing their own sisters to torment, heap on my poor head all the teasing they can muster.

They call me Maid – affectionately so, I like to imagine. They like to choose interesting outfits in town that they think I should wear, they like to make up all sorts of deficiencies in my completed tasks, and they all are convinced that I owe my brother $20 from a bargain we made 15 years ago. (As I recall, I paid my debt, but they all think otherwise.)

It’s almost like Seven Brides for Seven Brothers, except I really am a sister and not a wife captured against my will.

*sigh*

At the end of the day (and usually in the middle of the day too), it is very nice to have my own room to lock myself into. I’m fairly certain I would start knocking heads together otherwise. :)

Oh…here’s proof. :)

Feeling Overwhelmed

November 4, 2009 at 2:56 am | In Bible Reflections, Botswana | 1 Comment

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It’s a good morning in Botswana. Sunny and breezy…I have my coffee, my Jungle Oats, and a quiet house.

“Hear my cry, O God; attend unto my prayer. From the end of the earth will I cry unto thee, when my heart is overwhelmed: lead me to the rock that is higher than I. For thou hast been a shelter for me, and a strong tower from the enemy.” Psalm 61:1-3

MY PART: I am at ‘the end of the earth’ and overwhelmed…I should cry and pray to Him

HIS PART: He is the Rock, the Shelter, the Strong Tower…He will hear, attend, and lead me to the Rock

No reason to be overwhelmed today!!!

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